i havent dated a lot of guys either, never really was into it. im someone who likes real relationships rather than casual dating.

if the guy has a lot of exes, hes probably a player. i was in a similar situation a few months ago. i could tell the guy was a player, he was trying to get with me the first night we met, and it seemed like everything he was saying was what he thought i wanted to hear. well we dated, but he didnt get anything from me so the relationship didnt last very long.

but it was the same with me. everyone told me how great of a guy he was, and he was friends with everyone. he didnt seem like a player, but i suspected he was. and he was. well i dont know if he was really a player, he was more like a whore. i didnt fall in love with him or anything, but he did break my heart.

so if you decide to date this guy, just be cautious. dont give him the ability to hurt you right away. know what im talking about? dont give him your heart, at least wait a while, get to know him. just be careful, k?

Some basic math:

- He has lots of exes = he is a player.

- YOU developed feelings for him. He may tell you he did as well or maybe he hasn't even told you and you are just making this fairy tale in your head.

- He IS a player, but he won't be as stupid to tell you so. Only players have tons of exes, is basic math.

How do I know? Because I am a player myself, and I will never tell a girl I just want to f*** her, because she will not give me what I came for. I will always act as if I am looking for a relaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaationship.